Tom M

I am The Possibilities Coach. I partner with my clients and I help explore new possibilities for them. I also listen very closely for their Saboteur, (or their Gremlin, or their Negative Self-Talk, or their Distractor, or their Fourth Grade Math Teacher, however you prefer to describe it), and challenge those voices that tell them that "they... more »

I am The Possibilities Coach. I partner with my clients and I help explore new possibilities for them. I also listen very closely for their Saboteur, (or their Gremlin, or their Negative Self-Talk, or their Distractor, or their Fourth Grade Math Teacher, however you prefer to describe it), and challenge those voices that tell them that "they can't" or "they shouldn't" or that they "aren't good enough" or that they "don't deserve it". Put simply, I champion my clients. I help them live a life that is in tune with their values and help them to be true to their authentic self.

I am also a musician. I play guitar and sing and I have traveled the country performing in KISS Tribute Bands as Paul Stanley. People always say, "That must be GREAT!" or "That sounds like a lot of FUN!" and while some of it is, like most jobs, it has its' downside. I love the fans and the people I meet, though. If you know anything about a KISS fan, you know that they are RABID! They love KISS and have a loyalty to them like no other. I get many compliments after a show, but when I get a compliment from a real hard-core KISS fan, then I know that I have done a good job.

As much as performing as Paul requires me to be an Extrovert, I am actually an Introvert. I think this is where the books come in. People will often ask me what kind of books I like to read. Just by looking at my shelf, you can see that it is quite a variety! They say variety is the spice of life, so I guess I'll take my life SPICY!! Being The Possibilities Coach, it wouldn't make sense to limit myself to just one genre, style or author when it comes to my reading and my free time.

So that's a little about me. Let me know if you have any questions! « less