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Julie C

Julie C

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I would be the most content if my children grew up to be the kind of people who think decorating consists mostly of building enough bookshelves.
~ Anna Quindlen

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  • West Central, MN, USA
  • member since December 11 2008

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  • Gold in the Grass: Rags to Riches Through Soil Reclamation and Sustainable Farming. A Back-to-the-Land Adventure from 1954
    • Rated 3 stars

    I would recommend you bring to read while you lie in the sun, wait for your car to be repaired, recover from surgery or escape from the stressors of your real life. A book that is entirely delightful but not life changing.

    As World War II comes to an end, an injured Canadian veteran and his nurse fall in love, marry and purchase a worn out, run down 100 acre farm near Ontario; they dream of a quiet country life. Gold in the Grass: Rags to Riches Through Soil Reclamation and Sustainable Farming - A Back-to-the-Land Adventure from 1954 by Margaret L Leatherbarrow is their story. While their neighbors are making bets as to how long they will last, they transform a non-producing farm into their private Utopia using sustainable agriculture. It is a heartwarming story.

    In my opinion, this book fails as a how-to book. It isn't written as a manual. It is an autobiography written by a woman passionate about the life she and her husband built together. What kept me reading was Leatherbarrow's wisdom. I felt like I was reading a book written by an older woman who was sharing a lifetime of knowledge. I was surprised when I got to the last page of the book. The book was written only 7 years after she and her husband began her adventure. Leatherbarrow must have still been fairly young. Much younger than I am now.

    Julie C wrote this review Monday, October 26 2009. ( reply | permalink )
  • The Fatal Link: The Connection Between School Shooters and the Brain Damage from Prenatal Exposure to Alcohol
    • Rated 4 stars

    I usually don’t pass along stories of people with FASD convicted or accused of murder. My daughter faces enough challenges without people assuming that prenatal exposure to alcohol makes her innately dangerous.

    The Fatal Link: The Connection Between School Shooters and the Brain Damage from Prenatal Exposure to Alcohol by Jody Allen Crowe is a book that links prenatal alcohol exposure with senseless, brutal murders. A teacher, principal and school administrator, Crowe has been on the front lines. He has seen the devastation, the impaired learning, the poor emotional control and the resulting behaviors. He “gets it.” Like me, he walks around looking at the world through FASD colored glasses. He sees it everywhere.

    The author researched seven school shootings in Minnesota and Wisconsin. A”prototype” profile for a person with FAS was used to determine whether or not the person responsible for committing a crime had behaviors typical of a person with FAS.

    What I found was irrefutable… In every case, the behavior of the shooter fit research-based social and academic exhibitions of brain damage. In four cases, heavy prenatal exposure to alcohol is absolutely confirmed. (page 117)

    And, no one asks. Is it possible that there is a link between prenatal exposure to alcohol, emotional instability, brain damage, faulty executive functioning and senseless murder? In my opinion, the strength of this book is that it invites future researchers to answer the questions. Perhaps future police investigations will ask…

    Julie C wrote this review Saturday, October 17 2009. ( reply | permalink )
  • The Whitest Wall (Bootleg Brothers)
    1 of 1 members found this review helpful.
    • Rated 4 stars

    The CDC prevalence studies on fetal alcohol spectrum disorders indicate that Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (FAS) rates “range from 0.2 to 1.5 per 1,000 live births in different areas of the United States. Other prenatal alcohol-related conditions, such as alcohol-related neurodevelopmental disorder (ARND) and alcohol-related birth defects (ARBD), are believed to occur approximately three times as often as FAS.” This means that in some communities 6 out of every 1000 (or 1 in 166) children are born affected by prenatal exposure to alcohol. Some people believe this is a conservative estimate. The National Organization on Fetal Alcohol Syndrome describes the prevalence of Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disrorder (FASD) as 1 in 100 births. On Sunday morning there are about 200-300 people in our congregation. This Sunday, I counted three people who I suspect have disabilities related to FASD. Two of them have an official diagnosis. The third has some, but not all, of the facial features typically seen in FASD. He has obvious developmental problems. His mother mother attends our church. She has given her testimony in a public service and shared that she was an alcoholic. She has been sober for 12-years. Her son is in his 20’s.

    In the case of FASD, common doesn’t translate into visible. People affected prenatally by alcohol have invisible disabilities. They look normal; the facial anomolies seen in FASD are extremely subtle. The expectation becomes that they should respond and behave normally too. But, invisibility moves beyond an unrecognized disability in a person. FASD is invisible in our culture too. People with FASD are not featured in movies, books or music. I didn’t learn about FASD when I went to nursing school 25 years ago. It wasn’t a part of the curriculum when I taught nursing school 5 years ago. When I talked to my daughter’s special education resource person about the lack of services for people with FASD, she assured me that my daughter was the only child in school carrying the diagnosis. Our school serves 4000 students. Given the prevalence rates, there are 24-40 students in our district whose FASD is unrecognized.

    The Whitest Wall: Book One Bootleg Brothers Trilogy by Jodee Kulp is a novel. This book was included in the book bundle I received as a gift from the author. The book opens with the murder of a respected citizen in Small Town, Minnesota — the book is a mystery. As the story progresses the lives of the citizens of the town are described. The book focuses on motivations, culture, prejudice and the importance of community. The members of the community affected by FASD are identified and for the most part understood, even by the youngest community members — it is a fantasy.

    "FASD children can become the forgotten kids – the children that have nearly invisible disabilities. They have their arms and legs, can see and hear, run, play, etc., but most have never been to a birthday party or a sleep-over. They are last to be chosen to play, and first to be blamed. Their illnesses aren’t fatal, but a small part of their hearts and souls die with every rejection. Their behaviors may seem odd or unpredictable to themselves as much as to society." ~ Barriers to Those with Invisible Disabilities (http://www.faslink.org/FASDIntro.pdf)

    Because I am parenting a child affected by FASD, I have read a lot about FASD. I don’t kid myself, I suspect most Americans won’t read professional journals to try to understand FASD. This book will educate the readers about FASD without their even knowing that they are learning. And, this is the power of the book. Because as a parent watching from the sidelines, it isn’t always the brain dysfunction that causes the most pain and difficulty, it is being rejected and misunderstood. Perhaps education through a novel will translate this fantasy into the norm, a new reality for those affected by prenatal exposure to alcohol.

    The title of the series is eerily descriptive. At the end of the book, there were discussion questions for reader groups. The last question, “What is the definition of Bootleg?” The first thing that comes to mind is the making, selling and transporting (hidden in the legging of the boot) of alcohol during prohibition. But, I also thought about the unregulated distribution of music. My mind wandered from the unregulated sale of music to the unregulated sale of alcohol to the unregulated behaviors my daughter sometimes displays. She is not controlled by rule, law or cultural expectations. When I look at other people I have met that are affected, they are eerily the same. They seem to have a cultural norm all their own — they are from the same tribe. When I attended FAS Camp with my daughter, I sensed their brotherhood. She told me on the way home that she “felt normal.”

    This book has received the Mom’s Choice Award for Young Adult Fiction and Adult Fiction. This book is also a finalist for Book of the Year, Multicultural Fiction.

    Julie C wrote this review Monday, June 8 2009. ( reply | permalink )
  • Shades Of Black
    • Rated 4 stars

    This is a favorite bedtime story at our home. The photography and book layout are gorgeous!

    Julie C wrote this review Tuesday, March 17 2009. ( reply | permalink )
  • Having Our Say: the Delany Sisters' First 100 Years (Large Print)
    • Rated 4 stars

    My daughter's middle name is Delany. Perhaps that is enough to explain how much I appreciated this book. I enjoyed Sadie and Bessie's wisdom, courage, work ethic and determination. Besides, the best way to learn about history is not memorizing facts or reading a textbook. I much preferred walking their memories.

    Julie C wrote this review Wednesday, January 28 2009. ( reply | permalink )
  • Kids Talk Hair: An Instruction Book for Grown-Ups & Kids
    • Rated 3 stars

    I am white and new to taking care of my black child's hair. Of the three books I read as I prepared to bring her home, this was the least helpful. While visually beautiful and providing a wonderful variety of styles for someone who is already skilled in caring for black hair, I needed something with a bit more detail -- something more along the lines of 'Black Hair Care for Dummies.'

    Additionally, if your child has short hair, this book will not be helpful. My daughter's hair was shaved when she entered an orphanage in Haiti. She was malnourished because of parasites and illness. Her hair had not really grown that much. It was only about 1 1/2 inches. There was only one style for a girl with short hair in the book. That style didn't come with any directions at all.

    Julie C wrote this review Thursday, January 29 2009. ( reply | permalink )
  • Theology and Down Syndrome: Reimagining Disability in Late Modernity
    • Rated 4 stars

    Yong’s book clearly divides into two parts. The first section I would give 5-stars and would suggest that everyone working with or caring for a person with a disability read. It is that good! Parts I and Part II present a biblical, historical and theoretical overview of not Down Syndrome, but of disability in general. This section is well researched, well referenced and thought provoking. I especially appreciated the author’s thoughts on whether disabilities were medical problems that needed to be cured versus cultural problems that could be better accommodated.

    “My argument so far can be summarized thus: whatever else disability is, it is also the experience of discrimination, marginalization, and exclusion from social, cultural, political and economic domains of human life; and part of the solution to disability is to overcome the barriers to full participation in these arenas. ” (Page 97)

    The final part of the book deals with theology: creation, providence, the Fall, theological anthropology, ecclesiology, soteriology, and eschatology. While reading Part III (and explaining why it took me more than a year to read a book), I lost interest. And frankly I believe the author excluded the very people he is trying to include during his discussion creation and the fall. He concludes that we need a new understanding of sin and the fall. He postulates that Adam rather than existing in time and space is really ha adam, a representation of the first self aware humans who suppress the truth and resist God. This understanding allows for million of years of evolution and, more specific to Down Syndrome, genetic mutations and variations. I suggest that the understanding of man as being in the image of God when he is rational and “self aware” may in fact mean that some people with severe disabilities may not qualify as “human” or as being made in the image of God. Finally, I think Yong’s god is too little. Instead of an omnipotent God, Yong presents an omnicompassionate god who will, in the end, redeem all things.

    Yong’s thoughts on providence were better and reminded me of a quote I underlined in 'The Doors of the Sea: Where Was God in the Tsunami?" by David Bentley Hart. Hart was commenting on a story that appeared in the newspaper about a father who had lost 4 of his 5 children in the tsunami:

    ”Only a moral cretin at that moment would have attempted to soothe his anguish by assuring him that his children had died as a result of God’s eternal, inscrutable, and righteous counsels, and that in fact their deaths had mysteriously served God’s purposes in history, and that all of this was completely necessary for God to accomplish his ultimate design in having created the world.”

    Along the same vein, Yong was not quite as eloquent when he said, “From the standpoint of pastoral care, this means that we should never tell a person with a disability that his or her disability was ordained by God.”

    Whatever ground Yong gained in discussing providence paled to the painful journey through the rest of Part III. So, I suggest reading the first 150 pages of this book and then putting it down. If you want to learn theology, study the Bible, pray and be open to the mysteries of God. Some things we just aren’t going to fully understand on this side of eternity.

    Julie C wrote this review Thursday, January 22 2009. ( reply | permalink )

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