I can't figure out if this guy likes me, is a natural flirt, or simply a nice dude??? He makes weird faces at me and kinda like...acts goofy, but it's around everyone not just me. One time he winked at me. Another time he caught me staring at him twice and smiled. Like, he'll see me in the halls at school and all he has to do is make a silly face and a grin will break out. The thing is he never really talks to me. I thought he liked me for a while but that sorta faded away. :( We see each other once a week, possibly twice, and have more than 10 minutes to talk, but he doesn't. Also, I haven't been able to get his number. I'm shy. Oooh, one time he saw me sitting alone outside--I was so close to crying because I had found out the guy I liked for months had a girlfriend-- and he started rapping about me being upset. Could that be his way of showing he cares? He also asked me and two other girls who their valentine was...I'm overthinking he's going to send me a lollipop gram or whatever they're doing for Valentine's Day at school. Overall, he's freaking confusing. :(
I think I might have a crush on him. I mean, I go out of my way to see him in the halls only because I overthink that HE'LL do something. He never does, though. It's possible he doesn't even see me, but if he does he doesn't do anything. :( I don't want to like him because I doubt he likes me.
Oh one thing is whenever he sees me he either smiles, starts being really goofy, or makes a hilarious voice. He doesn't really...TALK to me though. :( I wish I saw him more...we have the same lunch but he has his own friends and I have one of my best friends so I'm not going to change that.
Oh, he has stared at me before...I think. OH. A couple months ago, when he would talk to me he'd stand really close and make eye contact but I can be really shy so I never really encouraged it. I think if he did like me I came off as not feeling the same...
TWO MORE THINGS. This could be very important. Okay, so I see him at Youth group and we went laser tagging back in December. Well we were riding home at 6 in the morning and I think he was fighting with his friends so he ended up sitting by me and while everyone else was sorta sleeping (we went from midnight to six in the morning) he told me how his ex broke his heart at the worst time and how he wanted to turn to drugs. I told him he shouldn't and regret not hugging him or getting his number to talk to him more. It scared me, though. Because they broke up and then two of his really good friends were like, really mad at him (they would make fun of him behind his back) for whatever reason. They seem to be better now...but it still scared me.
The other thing is a few weeks ago, I was waiting for my parents to pick me up outside. He came out and said that his ex liked him but he didn't care. Because he liked someone else. I was so close to asking who but I never got the chance because he mumbled something I didn't understand then raced inside...I'm pretty sure my mom arrived then, so I couldn't talk to him. But I mean....he stated clearly he liked someone else? We really aren't that close so couldn't that be his way of hinting?
Okay, so one more thing. He was singing goofily and told me he was in a band. He told me the name of the band, I said it was cool. Then he asked me if he could sing, I said sure, and he went inside, yelling to somebody, "See! She likes the name!" or something along those lines. That was back in December, though.
I'm overthinking. :( I freaking hate guys. Why can't they make it clear when they like somebody? I wish I wasn't so shy so I could let him know I like him back, in case he wants to make sure before making a move. But I'm used to having my heart crushed, so I don't want to do anything too risky.
Again, why do guys have to be so confusing??