What would you like to know?
You want ideas on how to spice things up? Toys that you can start with to use while you are reading the book?
Gangsta Chick gave you some great ideas. Maybe talk with your husband about a fantasy that you would both want to try and then try to make it happen (either in reality or pretend I can give you an idea for sites to start with if you want penthouseletters moments, which are fantastically fun, but those can come with a high price to a relationship) Try different positions. Buy a sex swing. If you haven't started with toys - start small..see what works. Get a massager and some hot oil massage lotion....read erotica to each other. Pick a passage and enact it out.
I'm more familiar with Undercover Wear (since I sell it) so its easy to give you ideas for that, but Passion Parties, Intimate Attitudes all have awesome stuff. nawtythings.com has everything. LITERALLY everything. It is all a very personal thing between you and your husband. My thing is communication, communication between couples. Mostly what has worked for people to start talking to their partners...being that your the female it should be easier for you to convince him than the other way around (speaking from experience here. Took my hubby a long time to talk me into trying some different things.)
Ask away. Ask anything. I'm pretty open, like to make couples happy together and if I don't know the answer to something - will try to find it for you.
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