If somebody does harm, that is not the fault of 'love', that's the fault or unfair action of the person.
Nobody; nothing can make or force to pretend ! love or life is not a lock where the key is lost or thrown forever!
For every relation, there is some compatibility, mutual sharing and respect. If it does not hold good for any person, whatever may be the reason; there is no compulsion to continue or pretend to continue! Freedom depends on one's self respect, ability to communicate and negotiate. if anyone is clear, honest and fair enough; she/ he has every right to get out of the mess and go in his/ her way!
Love is a feeling and love-relation is a mutual interactive practice/ commitment. In any mutual relationship, nobody is 100% at fault and nobody is 100% innocent; even it really be so; then the innocent person can get out of it if he/ she is bold and clear enough.
Think boldly honey, we are not birds in cage, we are not animals in traps! Accept yourself as more powerful, strong and able than to be trapped. There are good people too who love, share and respect others! Love goes really nice if both are patient and honest to understand and respect each others.
Yes, I think, in everyday life, it is conditional. There is a condition to understand, accept, appreciate, respect and share the other side; there is a condition to carry out responsibilities, there is a condition to give support in distress, there is a condition to give, contribute and forgive ( about petty and common faults).
To me, love is a strength; not a weakness.
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