"The quantum leap beyond positive thinking, Optimal Thinking offers a whole new way of looking at life, business, and relationships. This prescriptive self-improvement book is filled with superlative information for every type of reader."
This book empowers individuals and businesses to be our best and achieve optimum performance in any circumstance.
“Your purpose in relationship is simply to be your best self, regardless of the circumstances.”
We accept what we can't control (like the weather, interest rates, and others' choices) and maximize what we can control.Highlighted by 11 Kindle customers
Optimal Thinking is the language of your highest self. It empowers you to be your best and stops you from settling for second best.Highlighted by 7 Kindle customers
Optimal Thinkers eliminate unnecessary disappointment, because they entertain realistic expectations and focus on optimizing situations within their control.Highlighted by 6 Kindle customers
Whenever you think suboptimally and seek to improve-rather than maximize-your current situation, the quality of your life is compromised.Highlighted by 5 Kindle customers
Imagine yourself starting each day with five Optimal questions, such as: 1. What is supremely important to me? 2. What are my most important goals today? 3. Which actions will be most beneficial for my self-confidence and self-respect today? 4. What will make each task today most profitable/beneficial/enjoyable? 5. What is the most constructive use of my time right now?Highlighted by 5 Kindle customers
Until we accept the truth that our wounded feelings come from our choices and that we are responsible for the thoughts, beliefs, and actions that create our feelings, we will continue to feel powerless.Highlighted by 5 Kindle customers
Optimal Thinkers embrace reality and ask: What's the best thing I can do under the circumstances? When the stakes are high, they employ an Optimal contingency plan against the worst-event scenario to minimize danger and negative consequences.Highlighted by 5 Kindle customers
Optimal Questions 1. When am I most likely to think Optimally? 2. Am I embracing suboptimal thinking and behavior and optimizing it? 3. What is the best thing I can do under the circumstances? 4. Am I accepting what is out of my control and optimizing what is within my control? 5. Am I choosing the best and then putting my issues to rest?Highlighted by 5 Kindle customers
What is most important to me? • What's my major objective? • Which resources will be most beneficial in helping me to achieve it? • What are my greatest talents and abilities? • How can I make the best use of them? • What is the most constructive action I can take right now? • Who are the right people with whom to share my goals and dreams? • How can I optimize my gratitude for life?Highlighted by 5 Kindle customers
I deserve the best in life. • How can I make the most of this situation? • What's the best solution? • I'm taking the smartest actions toward my most important goal. • I'm doing my best. • I'm maximizing my options. • What's the most constructive use of my time right now?Highlighted by 3 Kindle customers
Part One: Help Yourself to Optimal Thinking
Rate Your level of Thinking
CHAPTER 1
Optimal Thinking: The Next Step Beyond Positive Thinking
Suboptimal thinking
What is Optimal Thinking?
Who thinks Optimally?
Do you recognize these Optimal Thinkers?
Take the quantum leap!
Why positive thinking falls short
Optimal questions
Optimal action steps
CHAPTER 2
What Does "Optimal" Mean To You?
Use your whole brain
Left-brain decisions
Right-brain decisions
What does "Optimal" really mean?
The key to the Optimal answer is... the Optimal question
Design your Optimal life
Five Optimal questions to start your day
Optimal action steps
CHAPTER 3
How To Use Optimal Thinking Consistently
Using Optimal Thinking consistently is a process
Consciously choose Optimal Thinking
Monitor yourself
Overcome your limiting core beliefs
Norma's story
Optimal questions
Optimal action steps
Part Two: Optimize Yourself
Rate Your Self-Esteem, Purpose and Goals
CHAPTER 4
Achieve Optimal Self-Esteem
Self-esteem: What’s it all about?
Our internal voices
How do you value and rate yourself now?
Your best self
Marry your best self
Optimal questions
Optimal action steps
CHAPTER 5
Discover Your Ultimate Direction
The value of a life purpose
Identify your life purpose
The value of a purposeful career
Identify your career purpose
Ready to commit
Optimal questions
Optimal action steps
CHAPTER 6
Plan Your Best Life
Set SUPREME goals
Why plan Optimally?
Write down your SUPREME goals
Modes of Optimal planning
Alternative plans of action
Make the best use of a calendar
Optimal questions
Optimal action steps
CHAPTER 7
Optimize Your Feelings
The value of emotions
Overpowered by emotions?
How to master disturbing feelings
Optimization signals
How do you relate to your feelings?
How to optimize your feelings
Optimal questions
Optimal action steps
Part Three: Optimize Others
Rate Your Communications and Work
CHAPTER 8
Maximize Your Communications
Suboptimal communication
Optimal Communication
Listen for Optimal communication
Nonverbal communication
Optimal verbal communication
Optimal verbal assertion
Conflict is a part of life
Optimal conflict resolution
How well do you communicate?
Optimal questions
Optimal action steps
CHAPTER 9
Optimal Thinking at Work
A new Optimal paradigm
AnyBiz versus OptiBiz
Optimal leaders and Optimal visions
Optimal leaders and reality
Motivating others to do their best
Characteristics of Optimal leaders
Optimal questions
Optimal action steps
Epilogue
Optimal Exercises
Optimal Affirmations
Optimal Questions
Bibliography
Index
Should be required reading to give kids the tools to be their best.
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