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“Started strong but then fizzled about halfway through.”
David R wrote this review Monday, August 10 2009. ( reply | permalink ) Was this review helpful? Yes | No
“truth AND beauty. ”
kristy p wrote this review Wednesday, July 29 2009. ( reply | permalink ) Was this review helpful? Yes | No“More deep thoughts on mortality and the undertaker's trade.”
Eileen M wrote this review Sunday, July 5 2009. ( reply | permalink ) Was this review helpful? Yes | No
“Unusual book, but I recommend it. This guy (who is also a poet) does what he says- uses his profession as a funeral director as a backdrop for his discussion of various life issues. Made me laugh and ponder. One nice thing about this book (for those of us with busy lives) is that there is no particular story line to follow, so each chapter is really a story onto its own.
Jessica R wrote this review Wednesday, December 17 2008. ( reply | permalink ) Was this review helpful? Yes | No
Coreen- Sean recommended this one to me. ”“I thought this book would be stories about an undertaker, but mostly it was life lessons as told by an undertaker. I didn't like it. ”
Matthew E wrote this review Monday, November 10 2008. ( reply | permalink ) Was this review helpful? Yes | No
“Thomas Lynch is from my hometown :) This book is very touching.”
Andrea C wrote this review Monday, September 29 2008. ( reply | permalink ) Was this review helpful? Yes | No
“Thomas Lynch, poet and undertaker in the small town of Milford, MI shares his views on the profession. Not at all macabre, rather thoughtful, enlightening, and sometimes even beautiful. Working in a funeral home isn't about the dead. The work is for the living, the survivors.”
Jocelyn B wrote this review Tuesday, July 15 2008. ( reply | permalink ) Was this review helpful? Yes | No
“I enjoyed this look at life through the eyes of a poet/undertaker. ”
sfdcnj wrote this review Sunday, May 18 2008. ( reply | permalink ) Was this review helpful? Yes | No
“This review is from my blog (May 2006): I heard Thomas Lynch speak a few weeks ago and decided I needed to read some of his work. Although it may not be an official title, Lynch is the Poet Laureate of Undertakers. He followed his father’s footsteps into the family business and his children continue the trade. But he’s also a well-known poet in both the United States and Ireland. Lynch repeatedly reminds his readers that a poet’s two main topics are sex and death. He’s certainly qualified to talk about this second. However, The Undertaking is not poetry, although the words often have a poetic quality to them. Through prose, Lynch tells stories about his impressions of the trade. ---- In his presentation a few weeks ago, he told us a story about one of his uncles in Ireland who had died. He went over to their cottage and was in the kitchen when the priest came in. He overheard some of the conversation and although his aunt’s back was to him, could see the expression on the priest face when he grieving widow said, "you know, Father, he died of gonorrhea." The priest stumbled for words. "I’m shocked," he said. "I don’t remember having anyone die from that and your husband didn’t seem to be that kind of man. It must have been when he took that job up north." The wife reassured the priest that her husband was a good man and then they talked about the services. When the priest left, the daughter went to her mother and asked why she told the priest that he died from gonorrhea. "You know full well he died of diarrhea?" "I know," the widow told her daughter, "but I’d prefer your father be remembered as the great lover he never was instead of the big shit he always was." ---- Although the above joke isn’t included in this book (maybe it’s in another of his books), there’s plenty here to laugh about. But there’s also a lot to cry over. Lynch presents a sympathetic portrait of most funeral directors. He tells about a colleague who, for no extra charge, spent 18 hours working on the face and skull of a young girl who had been abducted and beaten to death, just so her mother could see her again. "She was dead, to be sure, and damaged; but her face was hers again, not the madman’s version…. [He] had not raised her from the dead nor hidden the hard facts, but he had retrieved her death from the one who had killed her." (83-4) Lynch admits that some would have given up, left the body in a bag and placed it in the coffin and gone home for cocktails… Lynch isn’t much for people preplanning their funerals as a way to "avoid bothering" the living. He sees making such arrangements as part of the healing and letting go process. Responding to "Russ," who wanted to preplan his funeral and insisted "It’s my funeral! My money," Lynch wrote: "Here is where I explain to Russ the subtle but important difference between the ‘adjectival’ and ‘possessive’ applications of the first-person singular pronoun of ownership—a difference measured by one’s last breath." (190) One of the consequences of reading this book is that we're forced to consider how we live our lives. In talking about picking out a casket, he might joke that he doesn’t have a model that will get one into or keep one out of heaven, or one that will turn a frog into a prince or vice-versa. "There isn’t a casket that compensates for neglect nor one that hides true love, honorable conduct, or affection." (181) Life is for living. I recommend this book!”
Sagecoveredhills wrote this review Sunday, April 6 2008. ( reply | permalink ) Was this review helpful? Yes | No
“I've heard Lynch speak twice. He is brilliiant, funny and wise. Rooted first in poetry, his prose and creative sensiblities are fun and evocative.”
miedrichluo wrote this review Friday, January 26 2007. ( reply | permalink ) Was this review helpful? Yes | No
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