Liked It1 of 1 members found this review helpful“Great book, all parents new and experienced should read this book. It's a bit hard to get through in some parts but the general message is clear. |
“I read this and was convinced, and have parented Kohn style since. Has it made my kid better behaved? I don't know. But it has made me happier. I believe it will keep my relationship with my kids happy throughout life. I believe this. ”
Ethan wrote this review Saturday, August 8 2009. ( reply | permalink ) Was this review helpful? Yes | No“If you read one parenting book in your life this should be it! I read it slowly and took time to play around with the ideas with my girls. ”
Deb P wrote this review Sunday, July 5 2009. ( reply | permalink ) Was this review helpful? Yes | No“A fine book with practical advice. I love Alfie Kohn's writing style. Warm and not patronizing. If you feel like you're stretched very thin or that everyone in the world is a crappy parent but you and what is the world coming to, read this book and you will feel better.”
Heather C wrote this review Saturday, December 6 2008. ( reply | permalink ) Was this review helpful? Yes | No“Do you want to be a parent who influences your children, rather than controls them? Read this book.
Kohn opened my eyes to the beauty of loving your children no matter what they do. ”
“I liked this book, it certainly made me think beyond some of the more traditional disciplinary tactics we've been using. But I don't consider myself a Kohn-ite by any means. Some people adhere to his ideas like it is some kind of religion, I just appreciate his insights and continue searching for a balance between parent and child that I feel is good for my family.
Could be a bit irritating to read, as he doesn't offer a tidy recipe to follow at the end, more a broad set of ideas and thoughts for you to chew on.”
“I think there are lots of really good ideas and methods in here. I think this is a super way to raise children, altho I'm not certain it can be applied all the time.”
Kay C wrote this review Wednesday, September 3 2008. ( reply | permalink ) Was this review helpful? Yes | No“Helpful to consider more effective parenting strategies.”
heythereheather wrote this review Saturday, July 12 2008. ( reply | permalink ) Was this review helpful? Yes | No“This is my favorite parenting book. Kohn writes about the danger of using rewards and punishments with children and the importance of using understanding and communication.”
Candice A wrote this review Wednesday, May 14 2008. ( reply | permalink ) Was this review helpful? Yes | No“Great book, all parents new and experienced should read this book. It's a bit hard to get through in some parts but the general message is clear.
I wish their was a more concise version of this book. I would love to give it to some busy-mum friends of mine.
How we view and treat our children is so important and moulds them into the person they become. This book gives you a reason to question your beliefs that our society dictates.
Ideas and theories are backed up with clearly referenced studies.
Some ideas may seem quite controversial. Read with an open mind.
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“Presented reasonable explanations for avoiding rewards and punishments and using working-with strategies instead of doing-to strategies with children. I was bothered by the condescending and sarcastic tone sometimes present in the book.”
jtalavage wrote this review Thursday, November 15 2007. ( reply | permalink ) Was this review helpful? Yes | No