As it was in Anna Karenina, Madame Bovary, and Othello, so it is in life. Most forms of private vice and public evil are kindled and sustained by lies. Acts of adultery and other personal betrayals, financial fraud, government corruption—even murder and genocide—generally require an additional... read more
“Once one commits to telling the truth, one begins to notice how unusual it is to meet someone who shares this commitment. Honest people are a refuge: You know they mean what they say; you know they will not say one thing to your face and another behind your back; you know they will tell you when they think you have failed - and for this reason their praise cannot be mistaken for mere flattery.”
“Lying is the lifeblood of addiction.”
“I have learned that I would rather be maladroit, or even rude, than dishonest.”
“Familiarity breeds credence.”
“Every lie is a direct assault on the autonomy of those we lie to.”
“Research suggests that all forms of lying—including white lies meant to spare the feelings of others—are associated with poorer-quality relationships.”Sam Harris
““The Ethical Analyst” affected me in ways that college courses seldom do: It made me a better person.”Sam Harris
“The intent to communicate honestly is the measure of truthfulness.”Sam Harris
“But it is in believing one thing while intending to communicate another that every lie is born.”Sam Harris
“Honesty is a gift we can give to others. It is also a source of power and an engine of simplicity.”Sam Harris
“We can simply be ourselves.”Sam Harris
“Ethical transgressions are generally divided into two categories: the bad things we do (acts of commission) and the good things we fail to do (acts of omission).”Sam Harris
“One of the greatest problems for the liar is that he must keep track of his lies. Some people are better at this than others.”Sam Harris
“Lies are the social equivalent of toxic waste—everyone is potentially harmed by their spread”
“Tell enough lies, however, and the effort required to keep your audience in the dark quickly becomes unsustainable”
To lie is to intentionally mislead others when they expect honest communication.Highlighted by 665 Kindle customers
False encouragement is a kind of theft: it steals time, energy, and motivation a person could put toward some other purpose.Highlighted by 514 Kindle customers
The intent to communicate honestly is the measure of truthfulness.Highlighted by 479 Kindle customers
Lying is, almost by definition, a refusal to cooperate with others. It condenses a lack of trust and trustworthiness into a single act. It is both a failure of understanding and an unwillingness to be understood. To lie is to recoil from relationship.Highlighted by 398 Kindle customers
People lie so that others will form beliefs that are not true. The more consequential the beliefs—that is, the more a person’s well-being depends upon a correct understanding of the world—the more consequential the lie.Highlighted by 317 Kindle customers
What Is a Lie?
The Mirror of Honesty
Two Types of Lies
White Lies
Trust
Faint Praise
Secrets
Lies in Extremis
Mental Accounting
Integrity
Big Lies
Conclusion
Acknowledgments
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