He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys (edit title)

T.J. H edited the table of contents of He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys Wednesday, August 26 2009.

• Acknowledgments
  Introduction to Greg
  You Are All Dating the Same Guy
  1. he's just not that into you if he's not asking you out: Because if he likes you, trust me, he will ask you out
  2. he's
  just not that into you if he's not calling you: Men know how to use the phone
  3. he's just not that into you if he's not dating you: "Hanging out" is not dating
  4. he's just not that into you if he's not having sex with you: When men like you, then want to touch you, always
  5. he's just not that into you if he's having sex with someone else: There's never going to be a good excuse for cheating
  6. he's just not that into you if he only wants to see you when he's drunk: If he likes you, he'll want to see you when his judgment isn't impaired
  7. he's just not that into you if he doesn't want to marry you: Love cures commitment-phobia
  8. he's just not that into you if he's breaking up with you: "I don't want to go out with you" means just that
  9. he's just not that into you if he's disappeared on you: Sometimes you have to get closure all by yourself
  10. he's just not that into you if he's married (and other insane variations of being unavailable): If you're not able to love freely, it's not really love
  11. he's just not that into you if he's a selfish jerk, a bully, or a really big freak: If you really love someone, you want to do things to make that person happy
  12. don't listen to these stories
  13. now what do you do?
  Glossary
  14. q&a with greg
  15. closing remarks from greg: Don't waste the pretty
  16. closing remarks from liz: Greg can be really annoying
  17. life after he's just not that into you: From Liz
  18. frequently asked questions

T.J. H edited the ridiculously simplified synopsis of He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys Wednesday, August 26 2009.

• Added: The lame reasons women often give to excuse ridiculous male behaviours.

Shelfari edited the description of He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys Saturday, August 1 2009.

• He says: Oh sure, they say they're busy. They say that they didn't have even a moment in their insanely busy day to pick up the phone. It was just that crazy. All lies. With the advent of cell phones and speed dialing, it is almost impossible not to call you. Sometimes I call people from my pants pocket when I don't even mean to. If I were into you, you would be the bright spot in my horribly busy day. Which would be a day that I would never be too busy to call you. She says: There is something great about knowing that my only job is to be as happy as I can be about my life, and feel as good as I can about myself, and to lead as full and eventful a life as I can, so that it doesn't ever feel like I'm just waiting around for some guy to ask me out. And most importantly, it's good for us all to remember that we don't need to scheme and plot, or beg anyone to ask us out. We're fantastic. For ages women have come together over coffee, cocktails, or late-night phone chats to analyze the puzzling behavior of men. He's afraid to get hurt again. Maybe he doesn't want to ruin the friendship. Maybe he's intimidated by me. He just got out of a relationship. Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo are here to say that -- despite good intentions -- you're wasting your time. Men are not complicated, although they'd like you to think they are. And there are no mixed messages. The truth may be He's just not that into you. Unfortunately guys are too terrified to ever directly tell a woman, "You're not the one." But their actions absolutely show how they feel. He's Just Not That Into You -- based on a popular episode of Sex and the City -- educates otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesn't like them enough, so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship. Reexamining familiar scenarios and classic mindsets that keep us in unsatisfying relationships, Behrendt and Tuccillo's wise and wry understanding of the sexes spares women hours of waiting by the phone, obsessing over the details with sympathetic girlfriends, and hoping his mixed messages really mean "I'm in love with you and want to be with you." He's Just Not That Into You is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. It deserves a place on every woman's night table. It knows you're a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. The next time you feel the need to start "figuring him out," consider the glorious thought that maybe He's just not that into you. And then set yourself loose to go find the one who is.

Shelfari edited the contributors of He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys Wednesday, July 22 2009.

• Added a contributor: Greg Behrendt: (Primary Author)

Shelfari edited the first sentence of He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys Friday, July 17 2009.

• Many women have said to me, "Greg, men run the world."