Madeleine Hanna was the dutiful English major who didn't get the memo. While everyone else in the early 1980s was reading Derrida, she was happily absorbed with Jane Austen and George Eliot: purveyors of the marriage plot that lies at the heart of the greatest English novels. Madeleine was the... read more
“His mind felt as if it was fizzing over. Words became other words inside his head, like patterns in a kaleidoscope. He kept making puns. No one understood what he was talking about. He became angry, irritable. Now, when he looked at people, who'd been laughing at his jokes an hour earlier, he saw that they were worried, concerned for him. And so he ran off into the night, or day, or night, and found other people to be with, so that the mad party might continue...”Leonard
““My goal in life is to become an adjective,””Leonard
“"The worst thing about religion was religious people."”
“"I was worried that virginity was like getting your ears pierced. If you didn’t keep an earring in, the hole might close up. "”
“A Lover’s Discourse was the perfect cure for lovesickness. It was a repair manual for the heart, its one tool the brain. If you used your head, if you became aware of how love was culturally constructed and began to see your symptoms as purely mental, if you recognized that being “in love” was only an idea, then you could liberate yourself from its tyranny.”
“Just someone who knows, from personal experience, how attractive it can be to think you can save somebody else by loving them.”
“Listen, a girl’s not a watermelon you plug a hole in to see if it’s sweet.”
“It might not even be that great to marry your ideal. Probably, once you attained your ideal, you got bored and wanted another.”
This, Tolstoy says, is our human predicament: we’re the man clutching the branch. Death awaits us. There is no escape. And so we distract ourselves by licking whatever drops of honey come within our reach.Highlighted by 302 Kindle customers
In Madeleine’s face was a stupidity Mitchell had never seen before. It was the stupidity of all normal people. It was the stupidity of the fortunate and beautiful, of everybody who got what they wanted in life and so remained unremarkable.Highlighted by 270 Kindle customers
That was when Leonard realized something crucial about depression. The smarter you were, the worse it was. The sharper your brain, the more it cut you up.Highlighted by 224 Kindle customers
Enlightenment came from the extinction of desire. Desire didn’t bring fulfillment but only temporary satiety until the next temptation came along. And that was only if you were lucky enough to get what you wanted. If you didn’t, you spent your life in unrequited longing.Highlighted by 220 Kindle customers
And it was during this period that Madeleine fully understood how the lover’s discourse was of an extreme solitude. The solitude was extreme because it wasn’t physical. It was extreme because you felt it while in the company of the person you loved. It was extreme because it was in your head, that most solitary of places.Highlighted by 206 Kindle customers
That left a large contingent of people majoring in English by default. Because they weren’t left-brained enough for science, because history was too dry, philosophy too difficult, geology too petroleum-oriented, and math too mathematical—because they weren’t musical, artistic, financially motivated, or really all that smart, these people were pursuing university degrees doing something no different from what they’d done in first grade: reading stories. English was what people who didn’t know what to major in majored in.Highlighted by 205 Kindle customers
“There is no happiness in love, except at the end of an English novel.”Highlighted by 198 Kindle customers
College wasn’t like the real world. In the real world people dropped names based on their renown. In college, people dropped names based on their obscurity.Highlighted by 186 Kindle customers
In Saunders’s opinion, the novel had reached its apogee with the marriage plot and had never recovered from its disappearance. In the days when success in life had depended on marriage, and marriage had depended on money, novelists had had a subject to write about. The great epics sang of war, the novel of marriage. Sexual equality, good for women, had been bad for the novel. And divorce had undone it completely.Highlighted by 156 Kindle customers
The more she thought about it, the more Madeleine understood that extreme solitude didn’t just describe the way she was feeling about Leonard. It explained how she’d always felt when she was in love. It explained what love was like and, just maybe, what was wrong with it.Highlighted by 125 Kindle customers
A Madman in Love
Pilgrims
Brilliant Move
Asleep in the Lord
And Sometimes They Were Very Sad
The Bachelorette's Survival Kit
Preceded by The Leftovers, and followed by State of Wonder.
I would say that this book could be read by an older teen...but certainly has many "grown up" ideas and experiences that I wouldn't want a pre-teen or young teen reading about. Sexual content, some graphic scenes describing sexual acts, drug use, and mature language about relationships.
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