“Mom loved adages, quotes, slogans. There were always little reminders pasted on the kitchen wall. For example, the word THINK. I found THINK thumbtacked on a bulletin board in her darkroom. I saw it Scotch-taped on a pencil box she’d collaged. I even found a pamphlet titled THINK on her... read more
“After ten years in New York, things continued to stand out, like the photograph Woman Seen from the Back by Onesipe Aguado, at the Met. What does she see facing the wrong direction? I wanted to see it too. . . . It's hard to believe a woman's back made it clear that seeing rather than being seen could be something extraordinary, but it did. The power of photography's ability to evoke rather than explain inspired me.”Diane Keaton
“Now that I've lost my father, they're even more invaluable; a word for you to remember. By invaluable I mean essential, or, if not essential, then part of a quality of life that can't be replaced.”Diane Keaton
“Hear me out on this; one of the big benefits of having siblings is a shared history.”Diane Keaton
“Being adopted is to start life with loss. It's not necessarily a bad thing. Loss helps us learn how to handle goodbyes.”
“I find peace in these words, probably because death is a mystery and at times a torturous burden to live with.”Dorothy Hall
Women live longer than men because they really haven’t been living.”Highlighted by 44 Kindle customers
“Memories are simply moments that refuse to be ordinary.”Highlighted by 43 Kindle customers
Humor helps us get through life with a modicum of grace. It offers one of the few benign ways of coping with the absurdity of it all.Highlighted by 28 Kindle customers
She knew one thing: It all boils down to family. One day you end up having spent your life with a handful of people. I did. I have a family—two, really. Well, three if you think about it. There are my siblings, and there are my children, but I also have an extended family. The people who stayed. The people who became more than friends; the people who open the door when I knock. That’s what it all boils down to. The people who have to open the door, not because they always want to but because they do.Highlighted by 26 Kindle customers
Would we hurt each other less if we touched each other more? and Honor thyself.Highlighted by 26 Kindle customers
“To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under Heaven. A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to weep and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, a time to dance. A time to get and a time to lose.”Highlighted by 22 Kindle customers
She was teaching me how to see. Yet she never took credit for anything. I wonder if her lack of self-esteem was an early symptom of forgetting. Was it really Alzheimer’s that stole her memory, or was it a crippling sense of insecurity?Highlighted by 21 Kindle customers
The exhausting effort to control time by altering the effects of age doesn’t bring happiness. There’s a word for you: happiness. Why is happiness something I thought I was entitled to? What is happiness anyway? Insensitivity. That’s what Tennessee Williams said.Highlighted by 20 Kindle customers
“Value what you have now, so as not to miss it when it’s gone.”Highlighted by 18 Kindle customers
What is perfection, anyway? It’s the death of creativity, that’s what I think, while change, on the other hand, is the cornerstone of new ideas. God knows, I want new ideas and new experiences.Highlighted by 16 Kindle customers
Think
Part One
Chapter 1- Dorothy
Chapter 2 - Jack
Part Two
Chapter 3- Manhattan
Chapter 4- Big Year
Chapter 5- The List
Chapter 6 - The Uphill Climb Versus the Downhill Slide
Chapter 7- Di-Annie Hall
Chapter 8- Something Big for a Small Family
Part Three
Chapter 9- Artistic
Chapter 10- This Isn't Sometimes, This is Always
Chapter 11- Aftermath
Chapter 12- Hello
Chapter 13- The Gray Zone
Chapter 14- Then Again
Preceded by Heaven Is for Real, and followed by In the Garden of Beasts.
Preceded by The Chronicles of Harris Burdick, and followed by American Desperado.
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