“Man its been a while since i read this but I remember when I did I fell in love with the way it was written. Here Mcmillan writes in two voices. One Chapter is the woman, the next is the man. Go into the mind of each as they try and navigate the ups downs and in betweens of a relationship, life, love, friendships and work. She does a great job of weaving in and out of the two voices and i didn't find myself taking sides I actually empathized with both..The movie with wesley snipes and sana lathan on HBO was good but as usual did not do the book justice a must read!”