In her beloved New York Times bestsellers Snow Flower and the Secret Fan, Peony in Love, and, most recently, Shanghai Girls , Lisa See has brilliantly illuminated the potent bonds of mother love, romantic love, and love of country. Now, in her most powerful novel yet, she returns to these... read more
Joy goes to red China to find her father. Pearl, her mother, follows to save her and bring her back home to the U.S.
“Eventually, the only things left will be dust and memories.”Pearl
“Fate can't be second guessed.”Auntie Hu
“So much sadness and heartache, no? And yet we have to go on living.”
“it's as if they are dragging great shadows of memories behind them.”
“Hard work for a few years, happiness for a thousand.”Chairman Mao
“The spear hits the bird that sticks its head out.”
“People are shaped by the earth and water around them.”Z.G.
“Sometimes it's just so damn hard to be a mother.”Pearl
As she spoke, I wanted to cry, because sometimes it’s just so damn hard to be a mother. We have to wait and wait and wait for our children to open their hearts to us. And if that doesn’t work, we have to bide our time and look for the moment of weakness when we can sneak back into their lives and they will see us and remember us for the people who love them unconditionally.Highlighted by 338 Kindle customers
“Seeing something once is better than hearing about it a hundred times. Doing something once is better than seeing it a hundred times.”Highlighted by 203 Kindle customers
I thought I could use idealism to solve my inner conflicts, but in healing my inner conflicts I destroyed my idealism.Highlighted by 133 Kindle customers
She’s chosen a life I wouldn’t pick, but it is her life and she’s going to have to figure things out for herself—as a woman. It kills me to let her go, but it’s the best and only thing I can do as her mother.Highlighted by 131 Kindle customers
“Always show the greatest kindness to the ones you like the least. If you show kindness to your mother-in-law, who like all women has been bred to hate her daughter-in-law, then you will create an obligation she will never be able to repay.”Highlighted by 126 Kindle customers
The realization that truth, forgiveness, and goodness are more important than revenge, condemnation, and cruelty gives me courage and certainty.Highlighted by 101 Kindle customers
Blessing and worry, happiness and fear—this is a mother’s love.Highlighted by 88 Kindle customers
No matter what you’re feeling or how desperate you become, always take a moral position. If you do that, God will watch over you.”Highlighted by 83 Kindle customers
Give a low man one ounce of power and he’ll throw ten thousand pounds of bricks on your head.Highlighted by 79 Kindle customers
Mothers suffer; children do what they want. I look over at Tao’s family.Highlighted by 19 Kindle customers
Part I: The Tiger Leaps
Joy: Life Savers
Joy: Two Shadows Lengthening
Joy: A Sprig of Bamboo
Pearl: A Widow Should...
Pearl: Forever Beautiful
Joy: Observing and Learning from Real Life
Part Two: The Rabbit Dodges
Joy: Standing Against the Wind and Waves
Pearl: Dust and Memories
Joy: Loyalty of Redness; Expertise of Brush
Pearl: Scars on her Breast
Pearl: The Sorrow of Life
Joy: A Small Radish
Pearl: Riding a Flowered Palanquin
Part Three: The Dog Grins
Pearl: A Smiling Face
Pearl: A Perfect Circle
Joy: Between the Yellow and the Green
Joy: Glass Clothes
Pearl: The Ladder of Life
Joy: Launching a Sputnik
Pearl: A Rose-Petal Cake
Joy: Living an Abundant Year
Pearl: A Brave Heart
Joy: A Good Mother
Part IV: The Dragon Rises
Pearl: Separated by a Thread
Joy: This is Joy
Joy: The Heartbeat of the Artist
Pearl: A Place of Memory
Pearl: Fate Continues, Fortune Abounds
Preceded by Shanghai Girls.
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