"He should have seen it coming. His life had been one mishap after another. So he should have been prepared for this one …" Julian Treslove, a professionally unspectacular and disappointed BBC worker, and Sam Finkler, a popular Jewish philosopher, writer and television personality, are old... read more
“Just when you think you've overcome the grief, you realise you are left with the loneliness.”Libor Sevcik
“Whenever Julian passed a willow or a brook, or best of all a willow aslant a brook <...> he saw Ophelia in the water, her clothes spread wide and mermaidlike, singing her melodious lay.”
“His incompletion, his untogetherness, his beginning waiting for an end, or was it his end waiting for a beginning, his story waiting for a plot.”
“Though once Libor did say, 'Just when you think you've overcome the grief, you realiseyou are left with the loneliness.'Treslove tried to imagine a loneliness greater than his own. 'Just when you get over theloneliness,' he thought, 'you realise you are left with the grief.'”
“Better to go through life waiting for what never came, because that way you had less to mourn?”
“Julian Treslove knew he would never be clever in a Finklerish way”Howard Johnson
“I judge Jews by a more exacting standard. I judge Israel by a more exacting standard”Sam Finkler
How do you go on living knowing that you will never again – not ever, ever – see the person you have loved? How do you survive a single hour, a single minute, a single second of that knowledge? How do you hold yourself together?Highlighted by 140 Kindle customers
At any age there is future one doesn’t have. Never enough life when you are happy, that was the thing. Never so much bliss that you can’t take a little more.Highlighted by 128 Kindle customers
Talking feverishly about being Jewish was being Jewish.Highlighted by 120 Kindle customers
Was this what had all along been missing from his life – a palpable loss to justify his hitherto groundless sensation of it, the theft of actual possessions as opposed to the constantly nagging consciousness of something having gone missing?Highlighted by 104 Kindle customers
It gave him a preternaturally youthful look – this unconsummated expectation of tragic event. The look which people born again into their faith sometimes acquire.Highlighted by 97 Kindle customers
You have to be born and brought up a Jew to see the hand of Jews in everything. That or be born and brought up a Nazi.Highlighted by 94 Kindle customers
At a certain age men began to shrink, and yet it was precisely at that age that their trousers became too short for them. Explain that.Highlighted by 85 Kindle customers
If this was what all Jews looked like, Treslove thought, then Finkler, which sounded like Sprinkler, was a better name for them than Jew. So that was what he called them privately – Finklers.Highlighted by 84 Kindle customers
What moved him was this proof of the destructibility of things; everything exacted its price in the end, and perhaps happiness exacted it even more cruelly than its opposite. Was it better then – measuring the loss – not to know happiness at all? Better to go through life waiting for what never came, because that way you had less to mourn?Highlighted by 83 Kindle customers
‘Just when you think you’ve overcome the grief, you realise you are left with the loneliness.’ Treslove tried to imagine a loneliness greater than his own. ‘Just when you get over the loneliness,’ he thought, ‘you realise you are left with the grief.’Highlighted by 69 Kindle customers
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