Twenty-five years ago, Judith Wallerstein began talking to a group of 131 children whose parents were all going through a divorce. She asked them to tell her about the intimate details of their lives, which they did with remarkable candor. Having earned their trust, Wallerstein was... read more
Acknowledgments
Prologue
Preface
Introduction
PART ONE / PARALLEL UNIVERSES: KAREN AND GARY
ONE: When a Child Becomes the Caregiver
TWO: Sunlit Memories
THREE: Growing Up Is Harder
FOUR: What If They'd Stayed Together - and What If They Can't?
FIVE: When There's No One to Set an Example
SIX: Setting an Example
PART TWO / THE LEGACY OF DIVORCE: LARRY AND CAROL
SEVEN: The Wages of Violence
EIGHT: Our Failure to Intervene
NINE: Order Out of Chaos
TEN: Family Ties
ELEVEN: Undoing the Past
PART THREE / THE PARENTLESS CHILD: PAULA
TWELVE: Growing Up Lonely
THIRTEEN: Court-Ordered Visiting, the Child's View
FOURTEEN: Sex and Drugs
FIFTEEN: Evolving Relationships
SIXTEEN: The Custody Saga Continues
PART FOUR / THE VULNERABLE CHILD: BILLY
SEVENTEEN: The Vulnerable Child
EIGHTEEN: The Stepfamily
NINETEEN: Picking Up the Pieces, One by One
PART FIVE / MY BEST CASE: LISA
TWENTY: Is Not Fighting Enough?
TWENTY-ONE: Children of Divorce
TWENTY-TWO: Conclusions
Appendix
Notes
Index
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