With his characteristic warmth and humor, Dr. Kevin Leman offers a practical guide to sex according to God's plan. This frank and practical book is a perfect resource for married and engaged couples. Now in softcover.
“Every now and then a couple has a great sex life with a poor marriage, but this is the rarity, something you see only every couple of years”
“If you're married, sex will be one of the most important parts of your life, whether you want it to be that way or not”
Great marital sex is about learning to love someone else the way he or she wants to be loved.Highlighted by 56 Kindle customers
Good lovers learn to know their lover better than they know themselves. You’ve got to stop viewing sex through your perception alone and start viewing it through your spouse’s eyes.Highlighted by 42 Kindle customers
A sexually fulfilled man will normally be a better father and a better employee. A sexually fulfilled woman will have less stress and more joy in her life. Sex is vitally important to a healthy marriage.Highlighted by 30 Kindle customers
But marriage is about learning to put someone else’s needs above your own, and this goes far beyond the bedroom. It’s about graciously doing the mundane, everyday things as part of being a couple, developing a friendship, and caring for each other.Highlighted by 28 Kindle customers
When sex dies in a marriage, a man loses something very important to him—the knowledge that he can please his wife physically. And a woman loses the satisfaction that she has a man who is enthralled with her beauty.Highlighted by 27 Kindle customers
What warms a woman up is when her husband helps around the house, picks up after himself, helps with the children, makes arrangements for dates, and overall cares for her. If a husband consistently and graciously does this without acting like a martyr, he’s going to find, six times out of ten, that his wife is ready and eager to enjoy an active and fulfilling love life. It will be a natural response to a lifestyle of sincere affection.Highlighted by 26 Kindle customers
A good lover works just as hard outside the bedroom as he does inside it.Highlighted by 21 Kindle customers
The way you look at sex is the way you look at sex—but that doesn’t make it the right way, or the only way to look at sex.Highlighted by 20 Kindle customers
Another book every woman needs to read is Intimate Issues by Linda Dillow.)Highlighted by 19 Kindle customers
You need to know that every day a woman internally asks her husband, Do you really love me? Do you really care? How does she measure that love? How does she know she’s truly cared for? It’s usually not in the bedroom. If anything turns off a woman, it’s the feeling that all her husband cares about is sex. If a wife thinks her main role is to be a willing recipient of her husband’s sexual advances, she feels demeaned and disrespected.Highlighted by 18 Kindle customers
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