From the National Book Award-winning author of "The Corrections," a darkly comedic novel, set during George W. Bush administration, about a troubled American family. a contemporary story
Patty and Walter Berglund were the new pioneers of old St. Paul—the gentrifiers, the hands-on parents, the avant-garde of the Whole Foods generation. Patty was the ideal sort of neighbor, who could tell you where to recycle your batteries and how to get the local cops to actually do their job.... read more (warning: may contain spoilers)
“Then again, there had always been something not quite right about the Berglunds.”
“Behind her you could see the baby-encumbered preparations for a morning of baby-encumbered errands; ahead of her, an afternoon of public radio, the Silver Palate Cookbook, cloth diapers, drywall compound, and latex paint; and then Goodnight Moon, then zinfandel. She was already fully the thing that was just starting to happen to the rest of the street.”
“Things live or they don't live, but it's not all poisoned with resentment and neurosis and ideology. It's a relief from my own neurotic anger.”Walter
“He could see this person so clearly, it was like standing outside himself. He was the person who'd handled his own shit to get his wedding ring back. This wasn't the person he'd thought he was, or would have chosen to be if he'd been free to choose, but there was something comforting and liberating about being an actual definite someone, rather than a collection of contradictory potential someones.”Narrator, about Joey
“'The girls all come for publishing and art and nonprofits,' he said. 'The guys come for money and music. There's a selection bias there. The girls are good and interesting, the guys are all assholes like me. You shouldn't take it personally.'”Richard (on dating in New York)
“It was the season of migration, of flight and song and sex.”
“The personality susceptible to the dream of limitless freedom is a personality also prone, should the dream ever sour, to misanthropy and rage”
“People came to this country for either money of freedom. If you don't have money, you cling to your freedoms all the more angrily. Even if smoking kills you, even if you can't afford to feed your kids, even if your kids are getting shot down by maniacs with assault rifles. You may be poor, but the one thing nobody can take away from you is the freedom to fuck up your life if that's what you want to do.”Walter
“...the difference is that birds are only killing because they have to eat. They're not doing it angrily, they're not doing it wantonly. It's not neurotic. To me that's what makes nature peaceful. Things live or they don't live, but it's not all poisoned with resentment and neurosis and ideology.”Walter
“But nothing disturbs the feeling of specialness like the presence of other human beings feeling identically special.”
(The personality susceptible to the dream of limitless freedom is a personality also prone, should the dream ever sour, to misanthropy and rage.)Highlighted by 1611 Kindle customers
“People came to this country for either money or freedom. If you don’t have money, you cling to your freedoms all the more angrily. Even if smoking kills you, even if you can’t afford to feed your kids, even if your kids are getting shot down by maniacs with assault rifles. You may be poor, but the one thing nobody can take away from you is the freedom to fuck up your life whatever way you want to.Highlighted by 1257 Kindle customers
USE WELL THY FREEDOM.Highlighted by 1109 Kindle customers
He became another data point in the American experiment of self-government, an experiment statistically skewed from the outset, because it wasn’t the people with sociable genes who fled the crowded Old World for the new continent; it was the people who didn’t get along well with others.Highlighted by 1071 Kindle customers
She knew that you could love somebody more than anything and still not love the person all that much, if you were busy with other things.Highlighted by 962 Kindle customers
And this, of course, was the simplest definition of depression that he knew of: strongly disliking yourself.Highlighted by 955 Kindle customers
Where did the self-pity come from? The inordinate volume of it? By almost any standard, she led a luxurious life. She had all day every day to figure out some decent and satisfying way to live, and yet all she ever seemed to get for all her choices and all her freedom was more miserable. The autobiographer is almost forced to the conclusion that she pitied herself for being so free.Highlighted by 924 Kindle customers
There’s a hazardous sadness to the first sounds of someone else’s work in the morning; it’s as if stillness experiences pain in being broken. The first minute of the workday reminds you of all the other minutes that a day consists of, and it’s never a good thing to think of minutes as individuals. Only after other minutes have joined the naked, lonely first minute does the day become more safely integrated in its dayness.Highlighted by 843 Kindle customers
He’d asked for his freedom, they’d granted it, and he couldn’t go back now.Highlighted by 792 Kindle customers
The autobiographer now thinks that compliments were like a beverage she was unconsciously smart enough to deny herself even one drop of, because her thirst for them was infinite.Highlighted by 788 Kindle customers
Good Neighbors
Mistakes Were Made: Autobiography of Patty Berglund by Patty Berglund (Composed at Her Therapist's Suggestion)
Chapter 1. Agreeable
Chapter 2. Best Friends
Chapter 3. Free Markets Foster
Competition
2004
Mountaintop Removal
Womanland
The Nice Man's Anger
Enough Already
Bad News
The Fiend of Washington
Mistakes Were Made (Conclusion): A Sort of Letter to Her Reader by Patty Berglund
Chapter 4: Six Years
Canterbridge Estates Lake
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Preceded by Cross Fire, and followed by Port Mortuary.
Preceded by Say You're One of Them, and followed by A Tale of Two Cities.
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