Conrad Jarrett: Conrad is the main character and narrator. We meet him after he has been released from treatment after having tried to commit suicide stemming from survivor's guilt after the sailing accident that killed his older brother.
Calvin Jarrett: Conrad and Buck's father. He is the other narrator of the story, as we see from his point of view as he desperately tries to keep his floundering family together.
Jordan 'Buck' Jarrett: The Jarretts' older son who was beloved by everyone. Prior to the beginning of the story, Buck died in a sailing accident, which Conrad survived.
Beth Jarrett: Conrad and Buck's mother, Calvin's wife. Her relationships with both her son and her husband are very strained as a result of what the family has been through.
Dr. Tyrone Berger: Conrad's therapist after being released from the hospital. Conrad grows close to Berger in a way he can't be close to his parents.
Jeannine Pratt: Conrad's girlfriend, his one grip on normalcy. As they bond over the dark secrets in each of their pasts, they grow more capable to move on with their lives.
Joe Lazenby: Conrad and Buck's childhood friend and teammate, he is Conrad's closest friend.
Karen Susan Aldrich: Karen was a friend of Conrad's in the mental institution. Conrad attempts to be friends with her after they are released, but it proves too difficult for her.
Dr. Crawford: We see Crawford only in Conrad's memories. He was Conrad's doctor in the institution.
Kevin Stillman: Conrad's teammate on the swim team who is constantly antagonizing him. He is a diver on the swim team.
Ray Hanley: Cal's partner as a tax attorney. He has two daughters with his wife, Nancy, the oldest of which is Valerie, who has grown up and moved out. Years before, Nancy left Ray as a result of an affair with a secretary, through which Cal supported Ray. Now, through Cal's problems, Ray must support his longtime friend.
Donald Genthe: Conrad's teammate on the swim team. His parents are Ed and Marty, friends of the Jarretts.
Ward and Audrey Butler: Beth's brother and his wife. They live in Texas, with their children, Charlie and Kerry. Cal and Beth visit them for a few days to get away from their trying lives.
Coach Salan: Conrad's swim coach at Lake Forest High School. He is uncomfortable with Conrad's situation and treats him harshly.
Suzanne Mosely: A classmate of Conrad's. She is very insecure and people make fun of her. Conrad tries to befriend her.
Mr. Faughnan: Conrad and Jeannine's choir director at Lake Forest High School.
Arnold Bacon: Calvin's law professor, who served as a father figure. He does not appear directly in the story, as he died several years earlier.
Cherry: Cal and Ray's secretary in their law office.
Carole Lazenby: Joe's mother. She is a friend of Cal and Beth's.
Mike Pratt: Jeannine's little brother, eleven years old.
Leo: A friend of Conrad's in the mental hospital. We see him only in Conrad's memories.
Robbie Clay: A friend of Conrad's in the mental hospital. We see him only in Conrad's memories.
Ed and Marty Genthe: Friends of Cal and Beth. Their son, Donald, is Conrad's teammate.
Mac and Ann Kline: Friends of Cal and Beth. Mac is an English professor at Lake Forest College. It is implied that they have a son on Conrad's swim team, but Conrad never mentions him.
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“Haven’t lost your sense of humor after all but your sense of identity is what seems to have been misplaced. No. Wrong. You don’t lose what you never had.”
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