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Members of the Harvard Negotiation Project--which brought you the mega-bestseller Getting to YES --show you how to handle your most difficult conversations with confidence and skill. Whether you're dealing with an underperforming employee, disagreeing with your spouse about money or... read more

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Jack is about to have a difficult conversation.

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Foreword by Roger Fisher

Acknowledgements

Introduction

The Problem
1. Sort Out the Three Conversations

Shift to a Learning Stance
- The "What Happened?" Conversation
2. Stop Arguing About Who's Right: Explore Each Other's Stories
3. Don't Assume They Mean It: Disentangle Intent from Impact
4. Abandon Blame: Map the Contribution System

- The Feelings Conversation
5. Have Your Feelings (Or They Will Have You)

- The Identity Conversation
6. Ground Your Identity: Ask Yourself What's at Stake

Create a Learning Conversation
7. What's Your Purpose? When to Raise It and When to Let Go
8. Getting Started: Begin from the Third Story
9. Learning: Listen from the Inside Out
10. Expression: Speak for Yourself with Clarity and Power
11. Problem-Solving: Take the Lead
12. Putting It All Together

A Road Map to Difficult Conversations

A Note on Some Relevant Organizations

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  1. Douglas Stone (Author)

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