This unforgettable memoir, by one of our most gifted writers, introduces us to the young Toby Wolff, by turns tough and vulnerable, crafty and bumbling, and ultimately winning. Separated by divorce from his father and brother, Toby and his mother are constantly on the move, yet they develop an... read more
“I didn't come to Utah to be the same boy I'd been before. I had my own dreams of transformation, Western dreams, dreams of freedom and dominion and taciturn self-sufficiency.”Toby
Knowing that everything comes to an end is a gift of experience, a consolation gift for knowing that we ourselves are coming to an end. Before we get it we live in a continuous present, and imagine the future as more of that present. Happiness is endless happiness, innocent of its own sure passing. Pain is endless pain.Highlighted by 64 Kindle customers
Power can be enjoyed only when it is recognized and feared. Fearlessness in those without power is maddening to those who have it.Highlighted by 55 Kindle customers
WHEN WE ARE green, still half-created, we believe that our dreams are rights, that the world is disposed to act in our best interests, and that falling and dying are for quitters. We live on the innocent and monstrous assurance that we alone, of all the people ever born, have a special arrangement whereby we will be allowed to stay green forever.Highlighted by 54 Kindle customers
that victims are contemptible, no matter how much people pretend otherwise; that it is more fun to be inside than outside, to be arrogant than to be kind, to be with a crowd than to be alone.Highlighted by 45 Kindle customers
Like anyone else, she must have wanted different things at the same time. The human heart is a dark forest.Highlighted by 36 Kindle customers
I hear his voice in my own when I speak to my children in anger. They hear it too, and look at me in surprise. My youngest once said, 'Don't you love me anymore?'Highlighted by 35 Kindle customers
We hated each other. We hated each other so much that other feelings didn't get enough light. It disfigured me.Highlighted by 33 Kindle customers
Because I did not know who I was, any image of myself, no matter how grotesque, had power over me. This much I understand now. But the man can give no help to the boy, not in this matter nor in those that follow. The boy moves always out of reach.Highlighted by 27 Kindle customers
I was caught up in my mother's freedom, her delight in her freedom, her dream of transformation.Highlighted by 26 Kindle customers
coolness claimed its own out of some mysterious impulse of recognition. Uncoolness did likewise. We had been claimed by uncoolness.Highlighted by 22 Kindle customers
Does have reference to domestic abuse, drugs and sexual content
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