The Color of Water: A Black Man's Tribute to His White Mother
 

The Color of Water: A Black Man's Tribute to His White Mother

by James McBride

This is a book that will "make you proud to be a member of the human race," says Mirabella, and countless readers have already discovered its power. Written in remembrance of his Polish-born, Southern-raised Jewish mother-who married a black man and raised twelve children, all of whom completed college-The Color of Water is a classic of the memoir genre, a testament to love, and a truly... (read more)

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  • margaret r
    1 of 1 members found this review helpful.
    • Rated 2 stars

    Interesting story but not worth the time.

    margaret r wrote this review Saturday, August 23 2008. ( reply | permalink )
  • Jen N
    1 of 1 members found this review helpful.
    • Rated 5 stars

    James McBride discovers who is mother is in this touching novel about race relations, society's misconceptions of what love should look like and the tenacity of a mother.

    Jen N wrote this review Wednesday, June 4 2008. ( reply | permalink )
  • sthurner
    1 of 1 members found this review helpful.
    • Rated 5 stars

    "As a boy, I never knew where my mother was from -- where she was born, who her parents were. When I asked she'd say, "God made me," When I asked if she was white, she'd say "I'm light skinned," and change the subject.

    I've read The Color of Water twice, once in 1996 when it was first published, and now in 2007. I was impressed both times. The book is structured in chapters that alternate between the voice of the author's white Polish mother relectantly telling her life story, with his own voice and story of trying to learn about his mother and to understand himself as a man with a white mother and a black father. LIttle by little we come to know Ruth McBride and understand why she considered herself dead to her Jewish birth family, and how she became the wife of two black me, one a Baptist minister, and the mother of twelve. The book is interesting for the history it presents, as well as for its examination of what makes a real family, and how we define one another and ourselves in terms of race. This one is worth your time. IF you liked this you might also like The Tender Bar, for the way it celebrates a mother who had many challenges to overcome.

    sthurner wrote this review Sunday, May 20 2007. ( reply | permalink )
  • Eileen F
    • Rated 5 stars

    I liked the mom in this book. She was survivor. She also taught her children how to overcome poverty, and racism. My new hero!

    Eileen F wrote this review yesterday. ( reply | permalink )
  • Carolyn B
    • Rated 5 stars

    A New York City African-American minister marries the daughter of an Orthodox rabbi from Virginia and they raise 12 children in a housing project in Brooklyn New York. Sound like fiction? Hardly! James McBride recounts growing up in a world where race matters and the pursuit of an identity occurs on multiple levels. It is a tribute to his mother, who shunned the idea of being white, and a pognent memoir of growing up "different" but empowered to believe that "different" can be good.

    Carolyn B wrote this review 4 days ago. ( reply | permalink )
  • JC
    • Rated 5 stars

    Beautiful, touching, heart-wrenching, inspiring, and any other similar adjective that you can think up. I loved this story. I need to read it, again.

    JC wrote this review 7 days ago. ( reply | permalink )
  • Kim
    • Rated 0 stars

    Good story about bi-racial African American/Jewish guy growing up in the south

    Kim wrote this review 10 days ago. ( reply | permalink )
  • Kristin W
    • Rated 4 stars

    I thought this was quite interesting.

    Kristin W wrote this review 12 days ago. ( reply | permalink )
  • Mel D
    • Rated 4 stars

    What a wonderful story of a strong powerful woman and the family she raised. I greatly admire her.

    Mel D wrote this review 3 weeks ago. ( reply | permalink )
  • MARJORY Y
    • Rated 2 stars

    This book is the autobiography of his life as well as his mother’s. Ruth McBride, a Polish Jewish immigrant came to America with her father, Tateh, her mother, Mameh, her sister, Dee-Dee and her brother, Sam. In America, the family traveled around the country as his father looked for work as an unauthorized rabbi. Her father abused her when she was younger and cheated on her mother, even though everyone in the area knew of the affair. Tateh didn’t at all love Mameh, who had a bad back and could not stand up too long. Finally, they settled down in Suffolk, Virginia where they opened a small shop in the black part of town. There, Ruth had to work from sunup to sundown in the grocery store. She suffered so long and the other escape she could find was with her black boyfriend, Peter. He got her pregnant and as she began to gain weight. Mameh knew what was going on, so every summer, she sent Ruth to New York where her sisters lived. They weren’t particularly nice to her, but with the help of one of them, she got an abortion that she told no one. In the end, Ruth could no longer take the pressure, especially when she found out that her boyfriend had intercourse with his fiancé. She followed in the footsteps of her brother Sam, and left home, disowned by her family. She promised her sister Dee-Dee that she would be back to visit, but she never did. She converted to Christianity when she met Dennis in New York. They opened the New Brown Memorial Church. Together they had eight children. In the end, Dennis died of lung cancer, just as little James was about to be born. Next, she married Jordan and they had four children. He loved the eight children from Ruth’s previous marriage just as if they were his own. In raising her children, Ruth had always put education at the top of the list. She made her children go to the best schools even though most of the children and parents looked at her strangely for being a white mom of multi-racial children. All the while though, she never explained her past to her children or answered many racial questions her children had. James through all the chaotic events had walked on a wrong path of drugs and crimes. In the end, after learning from uneducated men from Kentucky, where her sister, Jack lived, he began to shape up and go to college. Each and every single one of Ruth’s children had successful careers and the future was once again bright.

    MARJORY Y wrote this review 3 weeks ago. ( reply | permalink )
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