Do you want to get ahead in life? Climb the ladder to personal success? The secret, master networker Keith Ferrazzi claims, is in reaching out to other people. As Ferrazzi discovered early in life, what distinguishes highly successful people from everyone else is the way they use the power... read more
“No tabulation of dollars and cents can account for one immutable fact: Business is a human enterprise, driven and determined by people”
“Success in any field, but especially in business, is about working with people, not against them”
The choice isn’t between success and failure; it’s between choosing risk and striving for greatness, or risking nothing and being certain of mediocrity.Highlighted by 629 Kindle customers
I learned that real networking was about finding ways to make other people more successful. It was about working hard to give more than you get.Highlighted by 558 Kindle customers
I remind myself how people with a low tolerance for risk, whose behavior is guided by fear, have a low propensity for success.Highlighted by 491 Kindle customers
Bottom line: It’s better to give before you receive. And never keep score. If your interactions are ruled by generosity, your rewards will follow suit.Highlighted by 481 Kindle customers
In fifteen seconds, I used my four rules for what I call warm calling: 1) Convey credibility by mentioning a familiar person or institution—in this case, John, Jeff, and WebMD. 2) State your value proposition: Jeff’s new product would help Serge sell his new products. 3) Impart urgency and convenience by being prepared to do whatever it takes whenever it takes to meet the other person on his or her own terms. 4) Be prepared to offer a compromise that secures a definite follow-up at a minimum.Highlighted by 462 Kindle customers
The only way to get people to do anything is to recognize their importance and thereby make them feel important. Every person’s deepest lifelong desire is to be significant and to be recognized.Highlighted by 418 Kindle customers
The tool I use is something I call the Networking Action Plan. The Plan is separated into three distinct parts: The first part is devoted to the development of the goals that will help you fulfill your mission. The second part is devoted to connecting those goals to the people, places, and things that will help you get the job done. And the third part helps you determine the best way to reach out to the people who will help you to accomplish your goals.Highlighted by 397 Kindle customers
My point is this: Relationships are solidified by trust. Institutions are built on it. You gain trust by asking not what people can do for you, to paraphrase an earlier Kennedy, but what you can do for others. In other words, the currency of real networking is not greed but generosity.Highlighted by 392 Kindle customers
In the first section, I list what I’d like to accomplish three years from today. I then work backward in both one-year and three-month increments to develop mid- and short-term goals that will help me reach my mission. Under each time frame, I create an “A” and a “B” goal that will meaningfully contribute to where I want to be three years from now.Highlighted by 388 Kindle customers
The best definition of a “goal” I’ve ever heard came from an extraordinarily successful saleswoman I met at a conference who told me, “A goal is a dream with a deadline.”Highlighted by 306 Kindle customers
I. The Mind-Set
1. Becoming a Member of the Club
2. Don't Keep Score
3. What's Your Mission?
3a. Connectors' Hall of Fame Profile: Bill Clinton
4. Build It Before You Need It
5. The Genius of Audacity
6. The Networking Jerk
6a. Connectors' Hall of Fame Profile: Katharine Graham
II. The Skill Set
7. Do Your Homework
8. Take Names
9. Warming the Cold Call
10. Managing the Gatekeeper—Artfully
11. Never Eat Alone
12. Share Your Passions
13. Follow Up or Fail
14. Be a Conference Commando
15. Connecting with Connectors
15a. Connectors' Hall of Fame Profile: Paul Revere
16. Expanding Your Circle
17. The Art of Small Talk
17a. Connectors' Hall of Fame Profile: Dale Carnegie
III. Turning Connections into Compatriots
18. Health, Wealth, and Children
19. Social Arbitrage
19a. Connectors' Hall of Fame Profile: Vernon Jordan
20. Pinging—All the Time
21. Find Anchor Tenants and Feed Them
IV. Trading Up and Giving Back
22. Be Interesting
22a. Connectors' Hall of Fame Profile: Dalai Lama
23. Build Your Brand
24. Broadcast Your Brand
25. The Write Stuff
26. Getting Close to Power
27. Build It and They Will Come
27a. Connectors' Hall of Fame Profile: Benjamin Franklin
28. Never Give in to Hubris
29. Find Mentors, Find Mentees, Repeat
29a. Connectors' Hall of Fame Profile: Eleanor Roosevelt
30. Balance Is B.S.
31. Welcome to the Connected Age
Index
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