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“My Friends tell me that I have a tendency to point out problems without offering solutions, but they never tell me what I should do about it.”
“Perceptions are portraits, not photographs, and their form reveals the artist's hand every bit as much as it reflects the things portrayed.”
Apparently, gaining control can have a positive impact on one’s health and well-being, but losing control can be worse than never having had any at all.Highlighted by 359 Kindle customers
We insist on steering our boats because we think we have a pretty good idea of where we should go, but the truth is that much of our steering is in vain—not because the boat won’t respond, and not because we can’t find our destination, but because the future is fundamentally different than it appears through the prospectiscope.Highlighted by 325 Kindle customers
The greatest achievement of the human brain is its ability to imagine objects and episodes that do not exist in the realm of the real, and it is this ability that allows us to think about the future.Highlighted by 319 Kindle customers
when episodes are sufficiently separated in time, variety is not only unnecessary—it can actually be costly.Highlighted by 261 Kindle customers
The word happiness is used to indicate at least three related things, which we might roughly call emotional happiness, moral happiness, and judgmental happiness.Highlighted by 257 Kindle customers
We cannot feel good about an imaginary future when we are busy feeling bad about an actual present. But rather than recognizing that this is the inevitable result of the Reality First policy, we mistakenly assume that the future event is the cause of the unhappiness we feel when we think about it.Highlighted by 241 Kindle customers
The brain and the eye may have a contractual relationship in which the brain has agreed to believe what the eye sees, but in return the eye has agreed to look for what the brain wants.Highlighted by 237 Kindle customers
Because we tend to remember the best of times and the worst of times instead of the most likely of times, the wealth of experience that young people admire does not always pay clear dividends.Highlighted by 232 Kindle customers
Knowledge is power, and the most important reason why our brains insist on simulating the future even when we’d rather be here now, enjoying a goldfish moment, is that our brains want to control the experiences we are about to have.Highlighted by 230 Kindle customers
Studies such as these suggest that people are quite adept at finding a positive way to view things once those things become their own.Highlighted by 157 Kindle customers
Acknowledgments
Forward
PART 1 - Prospection
1. Journey to Elsewhen
Part 2 - Subjectivity
2. The View from in Here
3. Outside Looking In
Part 3 - Realism
4. In the Blind Spot of the Mind's Eye
5. The Hound of Silence
Part 4 - Presentism
6. The Future is Now
7. Time Bombs
Part 5 - Rationalization
8. Paradise Glossed
9. Immune to Reality
Part 6 - Corrigibility
10. Once Bitten
11. Reporting Live from Tomorrow
Afterward
Notes
Index
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