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Nabilah M

Nabilah M

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  • The Last Lecture
    • Rated 5 stars

    “I understand the arguments about how the billions of dollars spent to put men on the moon could have been used to fight poverty and hunger on Earth. But, look, I’m a scientist who sees inspiration as the ultimate tool for doing good.

    When you use money to fight poverty, it can be of great value, but too often, you’re working at the margins. When you’re putting people on the moon, you’re inspiring all of us to achieve the maximum of human potential, which is how our greatest problems will eventually be solved.

    Give yourself permission to dream. Fuel your kids’ dreams, too. Once in a while, that might even mean letting them stay up past their bedtimes.”

    “Complaining does not work as a strategy. We all have finite time and energy. Anytime we spend whining is unlikely to help us achieve our goals. And it won’t make us happier.”

    “The brick walls are there for a reason. They’re not there to keep us out. The brick walls are there to give us a chance to show how badly we want something “

    Owh I like this guy =)

    Nabilah M wrote this review 2 weeks ago. ( reply | permalink )
  • Why Men Don't Listen & Women Can't Read Maps
    • Rated 5 stars

    Who says gender studies is not fascinating? I found myself nodding and chuckling as I read this this book. Despite that…highly repetitive. But most observations about how much men and women can differ due to hormonal or genetic influence are worth noting. And of course there’s no such thing as right or wrong here. The results represent the majority of the world population. There will be undoubtedly many exceptions due to individual differences.


    Here are few interesting quotations from the book:

    1. Men often choose greeting cards with plenty of words inside. That way, there’s less space for them to write.
    2. Men can mentally index their problems and put them on hold. Women churn.
    3. Men may be able to find their way from A to B via a maze of back streets, but put them in the middle of a group of women discussing a number of topics at the end same time, and they get completely lost.
    4. If a woman is talking to you a lot, she likes you. If she’s not talking to you, you’re in trouble.
    5. To get a man to listen, give him advance notice and provide an agenda.
    6. If women ran local councils, reverse and parallel parking would be banned!
    7. To prove his love for her, he climbed the highest mountain, swam the deepest ocean, and crossed the widest dessert. But she left him – he was never home..
    8. In being wrong, a man considers himself a failure because he has not been able to do his job properly.
    9. Talking about her problems is how a woman gets relief from stress. But she wants to be heard, not fixed.
    10. When you’re dealing with an upset woman, don’t offer solutions or invalidate her feelings – just show her you’re listening.
    11. Men climb on to their rock to solve problems. Women who follow them get kicked off.
    12. Most men get a brain haemorrhage after 20 minutes of shopping.
    13. After marriage a man knows all he needs to know about his partner and sees no point in excessive talking.
    14. A woman asked her husband to show more affection - so he washed and polished her car. Men see 'doing things' as a way of showing they care.
    15. A man isn't exactly sure what love is and he's likely to confuse lust and infatuation with love.
    16. Once you thought it was cute that he could never find things in the fridge, but now it makes you want to scream

    Nabilah M wrote this review Friday, April 19, 2013. ( reply | permalink )
  • Beautiful
    • Rated 3 stars

    So I decided to read a non-fiction this time. The story is sad, heart breaking and all. I think one of the scariest things that a person could ever think of is obsession. And this poor girl, what begins as a promising love story – a guy who worships you and loves you not because of your look ¬_¬” and for the person you are. It’s a cock and bull story anyway but yeah turns out he’s a devil inside. Dormant evilness lurks within him. Possessiveness turns him into a sickening monster. Well he sends a man to throw acid to her face if raping her isn’t bad enough.

    It’s sort of freaks me out because this comes from a real person, it’s a real story. The girls begins chatting with a random guy on facebook and starts to go out with him. Call him sweety pie (it sounds better if it’s a sweaty pie -_-) etc. However, through her descriptions, I believe she should have sensed that something’s not right with this thug looking guy whom he called as good looking. He’s obviously fishy. He wore Cartier wristwatch yet lives with his mum in a flat? He keeps on sending tonnes of messages when she refuses to pick up his calls. Outrage when another lad is looking at her. I mean with all those signals that could have put me at the end of a tether. She should have ditched him when he keeps on displaying his abnormal jealousy.

    Easier said than done. When you get someone who can sweep you off your feet, make you swoon every time that guy calls your name…it sure is difficult to think rationally. Anyway, how the story is written is slightly off-putting. Ahhh what do you expect? She’s not Jodi Picoult!

    Nabilah M wrote this review Friday, April 12, 2013. ( reply | permalink )
  • The Element
    • Rated 5 stars

    We have to go from an industrial model of education, a manufacturing one that is based on linearity and conformity and batching people to a model that has based more on principles of agriculture. Human flourishing isn't a mechanical process. It’s an organic process and you can't predict the outcome of human development. All you can do is like a farmer .you create the conditions under which they will begin to flourish it's not about scaling a new solution; it's about creating a movement in education in which people develop their own solutions but with external support based on a personalized curriculum.

    Everyone has their own element where they thrive. However, this will bring us to this question: how would the world function if everyone were in their 'element'?

    Nabilah M wrote this review Monday, March 11, 2013. ( reply | permalink )
  • Safe Haven
    • Rated 5 stars

    The first Sparks’ book that I read without a sad ending. For that reason, you deserve a standing ovation from me.

    It was somewhat terrifying how a steep turn can take place in your marriage. Many people see a marriage as a happy ending, but we never know what will happen after that huge leap. Any possibility, any uncertainty and might be the person who you concur as your Mr. Charming might turn out to be an abuser and a control freak.

    Erin led a happy life and married to a man whom she considered as someone who could offer her salvation. The couple were happy for few years. Her husband provided her with everything she needed. Her husband, a law-abiding detective, a pious man who knew bible by heart, a hopeless romantic person, a strong man with acceptable good look actually kept a dark secret. That dormant devil in him started to take control of him. He kept on believing what he did was for Erin’s good. He will punch her and kick her hard on her back just because she forgot about her sunglasses. He kept calling her selfish and stupid. Due to that nonsense, she deserved to be hit.

    Marriage is not simple. It is a rocket science. To find a man with all the qualities that you want will not utterly warrant you a happy marriage. Domestic violence does happen. Even if you’re married to a perfect man. The prospect of marriage is, even though you are more than ready to share your life with someone, to have extra commitment…body and soul ready is perhaps bleak. I wasn’t expecting a story like this and the plot sort of send me a shiver. I was just glad that Spark didn’t choose to write about ‘Stockholm syndrome’ though that’ll be more riveting…but that’ll make Sparks a thriller novelist. Careful planning, eh?

    Nabilah M wrote this review Wednesday, February 20, 2013. ( reply | permalink )
  • A Street Cat Named Bob

    A Street Cat Named Bob

    by James Bowen
    • Rated 3 stars

    SO shweeetttt. just learnt that cats are lactose intolerant

    Nabilah M wrote this review Friday, February 1, 2013. ( reply | permalink )
  • The Fault in Our Stars
    • Rated 5 stars

    Another heart-breaking novel. Few of things I’ve learnt from reading this novel:

    1. Every little thing you do (even an iota) is meaningful and yeah salvation is temporary. Don’t be so sure that you’re always in a safe position. “You might buy someone a minute. Maybe that's the minute that buys them an hour, which is the hour that buys them a year. No one's gonna buy them forever.”
    2. Tell someone to shut your fb account when you’re about to leave the world.
    3. Don’t extoll your favourite authors. They’re just people, given the advantage to write things down metaphorically and let you read what you wanna read.
    4. "Without pain, how could we know joy?' This is an old argument in the field of thinking about suffering and its stupidity and lack of sophistication could be plumbed for centuries but suffice it to say that the existence of broccoli does not, in any way, affect the taste of chocolate.
    5. "Sometimes, you read a book and it fills you with this weird evangelical zeal, and you become convinced that the shattered world will never be put back together unless and until all living humans read the book."
    6. Everybody wants exaggerated freedom. Little that they know that freedom will often invite sins.
    7. Real heroes aren’t those who do things but they’re the ones who notice things – paying attention. So keep your eyes peeled everyone for any anomaly.

    Nabilah M wrote this review Monday, January 28, 2013. ( reply | permalink )
  • Me Before You
    • Rated 4 stars

    despite its silly mushy title and chick-lit style front cover, don't be fooled by those stuff. this is hardly a romance novel. i can't believe that i actually cry reading this. i'm not as cold hearted as i think i am. so much emotion. and as the plot develops, you can feel that you're growing to like both characters. how they profoundly make up each other's weaknesses and change each other's life.

    'euthanasia' is a difficult issue. and how jojo wraps up the whole story's kind of disappointing. it turns out depressing but that's the beauty of this story. one event leads to another. if it wasn't for the accident, Will will not meet Lou. it's just that why can't he do what he preach? live your life to the fullest, yet you choose death and let your love ones see you ending your life.

    Nabilah M wrote this review Saturday, January 26, 2013. ( reply | permalink )
  • Fifty Shades Darker
    • Rated 1 stars

    Just 2 nymphos stuck in a book with no clear purpose except for carnal desire.

    Nabilah M wrote this review Thursday, January 24, 2013. ( reply | permalink )
  • The Snow Child
    • Rated 3 stars

    Great companion especially when you're 'basking' in the snow. However the inconsistency of the plot and the sudden 'Twilight' shift in part 3 is disappointing. It could have been better if the book just stop at part 2. I was expecting something better than Russian folktale of 'Snegurochka'. Despite that, the snippet of Emily Dickinson's poem 'Hope is the thing with feathers' is uplifting.

    Nabilah M wrote this review Saturday, January 19, 2013. ( reply | permalink )
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